Introduction to I am a real father

Hey Everyone,

As I sit quarantined in my home due to the COVID-19 pandemic, I got the idea that I should start a blog about being a father from my perspective.  I want to begin by saying that I am no expert in the business of fathering , however, I have experienced a lot in the 10 years that God has allowed me to be a father to Nia and Noah.  I really have acquired a skill set that has allowed me to build a loving relationship with my children.

In this blog, I will share my experiences and provide any insights that God has given me at that moment.  Hopefully, I will be transparent, honest and knowledgeable in a way that will be a blessing to someone else and help them to support their children to reach their destiny. 

Please feel free to comment and provide topics that you want me to talk about.  Let's make this fun and informative for everyone.

Antonio T. Harvey


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  1. BridgetteApril 18, 2020 at 4:21 AM

    This is great! There is a need for a positive light to be shed on being an African American father and just positivity in general during these times. I’m here for it!

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  2. Tameka A.April 18, 2020 at 10:50 AM

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