Over 100 Things African American Boys Should Know



Here's a list of important things every young boy should know, encompassing life skills, character development, and practical knowledge. These can be foundational for growing up into well-rounded and responsible individuals. Noah I hope I have taught you well! 

 Life Skills
1. How to cook basic meals.
2. How to tie a tie.
3. How to change a tire.
4. How to do laundry.
5. Basic first aid.
6. How to swim.
7. How to ride a bike.
8. How to manage money.
9. How to save money.
10. How to budget.
11. How to clean up after themselves.
12. How to use basic tools (hammer, screwdriver, etc.).
13. How to start a campfire.
14. How to use a map and compass.
15. How to tie basic knot.
16. How to read an analog clock.
17. How to use public transportation.
18. How to set up a tent.
19. How to fish.
20. How to sew on a button.
21. How to write a thank-you note.
22. How to make a bed.
23. How to brush and floss teeth properly.
24. How to keep their room clean.
25. How to care for a pet.
26. How to introduce themselves politely.
27. How to dress appropriately for different occasions.
28. How to pack a suitcase.
29. How to iron clothes.
30. How to wrap a gift.
31. How to shave**.
32. How to check the oil in a car.
33. How to use a lawnmower.
34. How to rake leaves.
35. How to plant a tree.
36. How to recycle properly.
37. How to use a fire extinguisher.
38. How to send an email.
39. How to make a phone call.
40. How to safely use the internet.

Character and Ethics
41. The importance of honesty.
42. How to apologize sincerely.
43. How to be a good friend.
44. The value of hard work.
45. How to respect others.
46. The importance of patience.
47. How to handle failure gracefully.
48. How to stand up for themselves.
49. How to stand up for others.
50. The importance of being kind.
51. How to express gratitude.
52. How to be a team player.
53. How to be humble.
54. How to stay true to their word.
55. The importance of helping others.
56. How to listen actively.
57. How to manage emotions.
58. How to forgive.
59. The importance of responsibility.
6,0. How to respect nature.
61. How to set personal boundaries.
62. The importance of being punctual.
63. How to be a leader.
64. How to be a good sport (win or lose).
65. How to handle peer pressure.
66. How to respect authority.
67. The importance of integrity.
68. How to be generous.
69. The importance of family.
70. How to resolve conflicts peacefully.
71. The value of loyalty.
72. How to be compassionate.
73. How to be resilient.
74. The importance of empathy.
75. How to accept constructive criticism.

Practical Knowledge
76. Basic math skills (addition, subtraction, multiplication, division).
77. How to write legibly.
78. How to read and write cursive.
79. How to read a book for enjoyment.
80. The basics of geography.
81. How to calculate a tip.
82. The basics of history.
83. The basics of science.
84. How to conduct research.
85. The importance of reading comprehension.
86. Basic computer skills.
87. How to type.
88. Basic grammar rules.
89. The importance of physical fitness.
90. How to take care of their health.
91. The basics of nutrition.
92. How to set and achieve goals.
93. How to ask questions.
94. How to give a presentation.
95. How to study effectively.
96. How to organize their time.
97. How to work on a group project.
98. How to use a dictionary.
99. How to use a thesaurus.
100. The basics of the scientific method.
101. How to participate in a debate.
102. How to build and maintain good habits.
103. How to read a newspaper.
104. The basics of personal finance.
105. How to fill out a form.
106. The importance of voting.
107. How to understand contracts.
108. How to make a doctor's appointment.
109. How to address an envelope.
110. How to manage stress.
111. How to identify and avoid scams.
112. The basics of public speaking.
113. How to set up and stick to a schedule.
114. How to balance school and extracurriculars.
115. The importance of sleep.
116. How to maintain good posture.
117. The basics of email etiquette.
118. The importance of environmental conservation.
119. How to research and understand career options.
120. How to recognize and avoid bullying.
121. The importance of regular exercise.
122. The value of reading the news.
123. How to stay organized.
124. How to write an essay.
125. The importance of self-discipline.

This list covers a wide range of skills and knowledge that can help boys grow into capable and responsible adults.

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