From A Father's Perspective

In family law, the debate over child custody arrangements has long been a contentious issue. Historically, courts have leaned toward awarding primary custody to mothers, often relegating fathers to secondary roles in their children’s lives. However, we are creating a growing movement, supported by groups like FathersFirst Memphis, who are pushing for presumptive 50/50 custody where both parents are assumed to share equal parenting time and responsibility unless evidence suggests otherwise. Fathers, in particular, have a critical role in advocating for this shift, not just for their own rights but for the well-being of their children and society as a whole. My story as a school administrator in Memphis, illustrates the urgency of this cause. Here’s why this matters and how me and  FathersFirst Memphis is leading the charge. 1. Children Thrive with Both Parents Involved Research consistently shows that children benefit from meaningful relationships with both parents after...

The Power of a Father’s Voice: Why Effective Communication Matters Communication is one of the most essential skills a father can develop—not just for himself, but for his children, family, and community. A father’s ability to communicate effectively influences his relationships, teaches his children valuable life skills, and helps him navigate challenges with confidence and clarity. The Impact of a Father’s Words A father’s words carry weight. Whether spoken with love, wisdom, or discipline, they shape how a child sees the world and themselves. When fathers communicate with patience, respect, and understanding, they create a foundation of trust and emotional security for their children. Effective communication isn't just about talking; it’s also about listening. When fathers take the time to hear their children’s thoughts, fears, and dreams, they validate their experiences and encourage open dialogue. This builds a lasting bond of trust, making it easier for childr...